曾在廣播裡听到 ,當孩子頂嘴甚至步入叛逆期時的因應之道
做媽媽的總是嘮叨 ,有一次已經高中的兒子不耐煩的頂撞了母親 , 母親氣得半死。
做父親的便約兒子一起出門散步。兩人走了好久 , 父親一路上不發一語 , 兒子納悶。 一直到要進家門口時 , 父親拍拍兒子的肩膀, 以男人對男人的語氣說 :
『等一下進去時 , 給我女人一點面子 !』
兒子驚讶於老爸用哥兒們的語氣對他說話 ,並因男人跟男人之間的義氣 , 從此對母親畢恭畢敬的。
所以 , 有的時候 , 父親這個角色還是頗重要的 !
當我的小孩頂撞我時，我想告訴他，下列的事任選一樣，做到後，才有頂撞的權利：
1. 連續3 個月每吃完一餐就須催吐 (孕吐)
2. 乳頭被別人吸到破皮達一個月 (餵奶)
3. 肚子塞一顆籃球達 10 個月 ( 懷孕)
4. 接受皮鞭抽打達 48 小時 (生小孩)
5. 10 個月不能喝冰水、咖啡、茶
6. 5個月睡覺不能翻身
7. 10 個月不能出遊遠行，不能跑跳
8. 10個月不能生病，要不，生病不能吃藥
9. 至育嬰室把屎把尿一個月
10. 晚上睡覺每二個小時起床一次，清醒30 分鐘達一個月
寫完上述
10 項，我覺得當娘的真不是人幹的。
想起一個高中同學他說：有一次頂撞母親，父親把他從椅子上踹下來，斥責他:
你媽是我捧在手心的寶，我呵護她，照顧她，對她輕聲細語，你憑什麼對他大小聲!!!
我的同學再也不敢頂撞母親了。
my god..this is so touch...
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Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Sunday, May 3, 2009
why?
why mo mom is different with others?
i can't deny that everyone got their own characteristics
but should at least have to change their bad characteristics?
we have planned to have a trip to hong kong
within this month...
last week we book the tour
but then just after that
the H1N1 flu exist
this is not my fault
is it?
definitely after matrix
i just want to have a trip outside
why she keep on scolding me to choose time like that to go travel?
keep asking me why not choose end year?
don't she know that that time I'll having my university lesson
she keep on asking me end year is there any holiday
but she should understand now i not yet get any offer
every university have their own system
Holiday is different
where can i find an answer for her?
she even say i don't border her
don't tell her the timetable
until now she book a flu trip
waste her money and time
it's all my fault
i really fade up with all these
this is who she is
i really don't understand
what is he thinking about
every time
every morning
when we go out for breakfast
we will ask her where to go
but she will just keep quiet
and then when dad want to bring us to that place to have breakfast
she will say why come to such place
is it women is like that
my dad is considered tolerate to her
sorry for saying that
i am not filial
because i do scold her behavior
because i don't think so she is doing the right thing.
mom, i hope one day later
you can change.
i can't deny that everyone got their own characteristics
but should at least have to change their bad characteristics?
we have planned to have a trip to hong kong
within this month...
last week we book the tour
but then just after that
the H1N1 flu exist
this is not my fault
is it?
definitely after matrix
i just want to have a trip outside
why she keep on scolding me to choose time like that to go travel?
keep asking me why not choose end year?
don't she know that that time I'll having my university lesson
she keep on asking me end year is there any holiday
but she should understand now i not yet get any offer
every university have their own system
Holiday is different
where can i find an answer for her?
she even say i don't border her
don't tell her the timetable
until now she book a flu trip
waste her money and time
it's all my fault
i really fade up with all these
this is who she is
i really don't understand
what is he thinking about
every time
every morning
when we go out for breakfast
we will ask her where to go
but she will just keep quiet
and then when dad want to bring us to that place to have breakfast
she will say why come to such place
is it women is like that
my dad is considered tolerate to her
sorry for saying that
i am not filial
because i do scold her behavior
because i don't think so she is doing the right thing.
mom, i hope one day later
you can change.
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